As I looked through Jack’s backpack on Friday afternoon, I found a small whiteboard and a note from Monica (Jack’s school aide/school mom). She said that she had bought the board for Jack thinking it might be interesting, “He’s doing great answering questions. He’s so smart!”
I almost ignored the note. We get a lot of “great ideas” here at 26 Clinton Avenue, and most end up being less than successful experiments. The whiteboard lay on the kitchen island until later that night when Dan and I finally tried a few simple “yes” and “no” questions. Jack quickly and clearly circled the appropriate answers. We were impressed, but got distracted and didn’t think too much about it. Saturday we tried again with Anna, and she didn’t give her brother an easy time. She started asking questions, requiring Jack to read the options himself before circling the correct answer. Question after question he answered them all without hesitation. Eager to test how much he was reading, Anna took it a step further. She started writing out the questions silently. No hints or help. Jack didn’t miss a beat. He’d look at the question and circle the correct answer.
Over the last eight years we’ve seen hints that Jack could still read, but we had no idea to what extent. Until now, his fine motor skills have prevented much progress with holding a pen. Even something as simple as a circle was out of his reach. Now, Jack might not need to relay solely on his smile to get his point across. He may finally have access to words. AMAZING! Jack being able to tell us what he wants for dinner OR how he’s feeling OR what hurts. The possibilities are endless.
We’ve shared this update with some friends and family and the news has been greeted with high-fives, tears and hugs. Everyone knows that communication has always been on the top of our “wish list”. I think people have been surprised by our calm demeanor while describing this new milestone. I know we should be opening the champagne and dancing in the streets and we will – in time. We’re simply being careful. It’s self-protection.
Progress doesn’t always happen in a straight line and for people with ALD the road can be particularly inconsistent. ALD can tease you with progress than steal it back without explanation. This makes celebrating successes a little nerve wracking. Our family braces for good news as much as we do for bad news. I think every day that Jack is able to repeat his new trick/mind blowing triumph, we will feel a little more confident about celebrating. Until then, we are quietly clapping, dancing and doing summersaults.
Love, Jess
Our family has tried EVERYTHING to help Jack access language. It’s amazing that something as simple as a little whiteboard might be the start of a new chapter. Monica – we love you!!
Jack didn’t miss a beat answering this one!
Anna left this for Jack earlier today. He didn’t hesitate.
This is great news! That school,teachers and school moms are a blessing.He does understand. XO
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Thanks Darcy. We miss you!
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Jesse, I’m crying BIG tears of joy. I understand your hesitation , but for today to see Yes I love my sister is gorgeous!
I love you all! Patty
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Thanks Patty — wait until you see him. HE’S a STAR!
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Jesse,
Your posts inspire and awe! Thanks so much for sharing.
As we celebrate the new year, wishing both friends who observe with us and those who don’t peace, prosperity and health for the coming year, your writing grounds me and helps me appreciate how blessed we are.
With deepest admiration,
Lee Smith
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We hope you enjoyed a wonderful celebration. See you soon and I promise to keep writing.
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You write beautifully Jesse. Muah! xoxo
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Thanks — THAT is a true compliment from a great writer!
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Wonderful news! Amazing!
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Thanks Marite!
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Absolutely beautiful! Hugs to all!
the murrays
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Thanks Aimee. Sending high fives to you and your family.
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“Quietly clapping” is beautiful and sums up that tentative joy so well. I’m shedding a tear here at my computer and sending you all a big hug!
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This is really incredible, exciting, life-changing news AND your contained optimism is understandable and probably smart. Nonetheless…WOW!
I can’t wait to write to Jack 🙂
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Fingers still crossed here — thanks for the support!
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Thanks Berit. He is still shocking us here on Clinton Ave!
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What great news! XOXOXOX
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Thanks Christine!
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Thanks for sharing! Jack is such a lucky boy to be part of the HHS family;-)
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This is fantastic news, simple and elegant, sometimes we just need to be reminded of the beauty in simplicity. I just hope Jack is allowed some rest now that everyone wants to chat with/”hear” from him 🙂
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REST? What’s rest!?!?!? 😉
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